I don’t even trust my server skills enough to open my jellyfin to the internet.

I’ve already got prowlarr, radarr and sonarr set up, so that would be a good option.

I think it means she’s shallow and insecure.

Those aren’t typically risky media. When you’re downloading games though, you’re downloading executable programs. You can do some serious damage if you execute the wrong things. You’re not executing a mkv or a pdf, you’re only reading it.